Why would my boyfriend secretly fill out a dating questionnaire behind my back?

He said he was only curious, but the details of the questions and his answers to them were pretty precise. Sadly, it appears he's looking for someone totally unlike me. Should I leave him?

Why would my boyfriend secretly fill out a dating questionnaire behind my back?
give him his moment of inspiration...if he's really for you you shouldn't be worried at all
Reply:because he is a jerk that is why....





and i agree with the other answers...leave him.....
Reply:Hello, wake up
Reply:How do you feel about it? I personally can't give advice to someone I don't know and I don't know the details of the relationship. However, I am seeing someone and love him, we are best friends and totally have an honest relationship. If I found he was doing that, I would talk with him, and we would have to go from there. I trust this guy though, and he would tell me like it is. I would be hurt and probably not want to risk any more pain. Sorry about your hurt. Good luck to ya. I have had a few relationships that really did me in, but I have learned not to base my self opinion on a guy.
Reply:Because he is probably looking for someone else. Kick him to the curb! You deserve better!
Reply:he's looking around
Reply:you bet your sweet a$% you should leave his sorry a%26amp;*..the sooner the better..good luck
Reply:Yes, please leave him. There are more males out there worth caring for. If he did that to you now, he will do it again.
Reply:Maybe he just wanted to see how compatible the two of you are. If you're not compatible, it won't work out in the long run anyway. It may seem exciting at first to find someone so different from you, but in the long run, it does NOT make for a good relationship.





If you're not happy, move on. Find someone you REALLY love and who REALLY loves you. Take your time. As Kenny Loggins sang:





Wait a little while to welcome what you're after.


Give it the time to find its way to you.


As soon as you no longer try,


You'll turn and find it standing by your side.


Just forget it.


If you let it,


It'll come to you.





Try playing "Wait a Little While" from his Nightwatch album and listen carefully to all the words. Very wise and truthful words. I just found out that his ex-wife, Eva Ein(sp) wrote the words. She must be a very impressive lady. I wonder what happened between them?





Cal-el
Reply:He is weird, filling out something and then leaving it around for you to see. Run, honey, run and don't look back.
Reply:There is really no need to leave him, he will be leaving you in no time at all.








My advice, fill out your own dating questionnaire.
Reply:he is not committed to you, dump him!!!